反面存在：给予的缺失与失去的意义

悄悄地渡过悄悄的渡过

没料到我所失的竟已是我的所有

歌词千寻WhatAreYouDoingTheRestOfYourLife-ScottWalker.Whatareyoudoingtherestofyourlife?NorthandSouthandEastandWestofyourlifeIhaveonlyonerequestofyourlifeThatyouspenditallwithme.AlltheseasonsandthetimesofyourdaysAllthenickelsandthedimesofyourdaysLetthereasonsandtherhymesofyourdaysAllbeginandendwithme.IwanttoseeyourfaceineverykindoflightInthefieldsofdawnandtheforestsofthenightAndwhenyoustandbeforethecandlesonacakeOh,letmebetheonetohearthesilentwishyoumake.ThosetomorrowswaitingdeepinyoureyesIntheworldoflovethatyoukeepinyoureyesI'llawakenwhat'sasleepinyoureyesItmaytakeakissortwo.ThroughallofmylifeSummer,Winter,Spring,andFallofmylifeAllIeverwillrecallofmylifeIsallofmylif

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《秘书的秘密：爱与职场的暗潮涌动》